Simone de Beauvoir’s authentic love is a project of equals | Aeon Essays

Curator’s Note: I was reminded of George Eliot’s Middlemarch while reading this essay. The protagonist, Dorothea, seeks to be a ‘woman in love’ by being devoted to a man himself devoted to scholarship, and immersing herself in his scholarly devotion – to find (an ultimately futile) meaning in life.

For Simone de Beauvoir, authentic love is an ethical undertaking: it can be spoilt by devotion as much as by selfishness
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